Going to the cinema alone has only become a thing I do due to becoming an Unlimited member at Cineworld Cinemas. It has given me the opportunities to tackle that anxiety and just go by myself. The first movie I ever went to see on my own was Mad Max: Fury Road. What a great first choice. It was a brilliant movie and there were many other people there on their own so in a way I didn't feel alone. Although I was desperate to have someone to talk to about it straight away.
So why is it enjoyable to go on your own? Well you get to choose the movie without having to think what anyone else wants to see. You don't sit there wondering if the other person is enjoying the movie. If you want to talk about it to someone afterwards then you can always go on social media or talk to people later on. It means if no one wants to go see that movie you desperately want to see there is nothing actually stopping you.
Last movie I went to see on my own was Fast & Furious 8. Again I had a great time on my own and the best part was there were elderly women in the screening on their own and I was like "YES!". Going to the cinema seems to be considered as one of those activities you do with friends, but I don't see why it has to be. People will comfortably sit at home and watch movies on their own therefore it's just going out and doing the same thing. Don't miss out on something fun.
Other people there honestly don't care whether you are with your friends, on a date or on your own. They are more interested in the movie they are going to see. Once the lights go off and the movie starts you settle in and forget about it and might actually realise how much fun you are having.
Don't miss out on the movies you really want to see. Don't miss out on the fun you could be having
On the 26th June 2016 I made the journey to go to New Zealand to visit my best friend who moved out there in 2006 with her parents. It was the first time I ever left the UK completely on my own. So, that was a big deal. It's not like I was going on a 2 hour plane journey to somewhere in Europe it was to the other side of the world. It was such an amazing experience and I had such a wonderful time with my second and adopted family. I miss them so much.
I was quite lucky on my flights on both parts of my journey on both ways. Strangers can be extremely nice and helpful. I still can't believe I managed to fight any anxieties and got my arse all the way there. Once there I done so many cool things and had such a great time. But here are just a few of my favourite parts about my time there.
1. First of all, it has to be the time I actually got to spend with my best friend. We hadn't seen each other for 5 years at this point. Even the days we just stayed in and watched tv shows like Outlander and The Flash were good because we hadn't done it in so long. Plus her family are like family to me and I love spending time with them. It was also the first time I met her dog, Merida. She was iffy at first with me, every morning she would bark at me but she warmed up to me.
2. Hobbiton has to be one of the best parts. I am a fairly big Lord of the Rings fan so it was an amazing thing to do. We had a Hobbit feast in the Green Dragon, I mean how cool is that? Got to dance where Bilbo had his party, and we were the best dancers but I think that's because we pulled out our Scottish ceilidh moves.
3. Coromandel was pretty good, even though we had to get up at a silly time in the morning that nobody was pleased with and the fact that we had to get the coach there instead of the ferry due to the weather. There was some pretty waterfalls and some of the scenery reminded me of Lost so I was waiting for the smoke monster every so often. On the way back I got to witness a very stunning sunset too.
4. The Sky Tower. I'm just glad that I don't have a fear of heights.
5. Now, the food there was not my favourite I must admit but there was a Mongolian restaurant that was the best. You picked what you wanted in your dish and take it up to the chef and he cooks it right in front of you. Delicious.
6. Being in the hotel in Dubai on my own on the way back. It was so peaceful and I had an interesting view.
Typing all of this just made me realise that I would very much like to go back someday and explore more of New Zealand. I went during their winter so it had some cold days and had some nice days. Would maybe like to go just before Summer hits. I also miss my best friend again and can't wait till we get to see each other. The flights were rather brutal though and the jet lag I experienced when I got back home was unbelievably horrible. It took me a while to get back into my normal routines. If you do ever get the chance to go to New Zealand though I highly recommend it. Just prepare for having too much salt on your chips.
Psoriasis. A lovely skin condition which makes your skin regenerate (do I think I'm the Doctor or something?) quicker, and sometimes leaves you with red patches and even flaky skin. It can be irritating and it can also be painful. It is something that I have lived with since I was about 14/15. As if being a teenager wasn't hard enough. At the start of 2016 I finally went to the doctors, got given lotions and gels to try and tame it. I stuck to a strict regime this time and it finally had an end result. It's not completely gone but it is better than it was before. Having psoriasis always made me question whether a tattoo was even a good idea. What if my skin just ruined it?
With my skin clearing up I thought "I can't let this hold me back on doing something I have wanted to do for so long". It felt amazing. Now it's not even been a week since I got it so I can't say for sure whether it has triggered any flare ups but I'm keeping my fingers crossed. It does look good so far. Apart from the scabs and peeling but that's normal. Every psoriasis sufferer will have different experiences though.
What I feel like the tattoo gives me is something that I like about my skin. Instead of seeing a red flaky patch I have a piece of art on my arm. That has to be a positive thing. Psoriasis sometimes has the potential of taking over a person's life. It can cause not just physical issues but mental health issues can also play a role. Getting a tattoo was like giving it a middle finger and I'm damn happy I went through with it. Even if it does flare up around the area in the future I still won't regret ever getting it done.
Last month I made an appointment to get my very first tattoo. I had wanted one since I was about 15/16 years old but never had the guts, the money or any idea of what I really wanted. Beforehand I wanted lyrics but I'm extremely relieved I never went through with it because, well the lead singer of the band I was a huge fan of is not a good person and I would be sitting here regretting it.
That means choosing something became quite difficult. I didn't want it related to a band or tv show that I might grow to dislike or lose interest in. Astronomy and planets is something however that I've always found interesting and I came across a Saturn tattoo that I fell in love with. Also it's the sixth planet from the sun (6 is my fave/lucky number) and I don't always think your tattoo needs meaning behind it. If you like it and want it, it's your decision. It was decided for me though. It was just a matter of having the money and guts to go through with it.
I was nervous of course. I get nervous very easily but according to the tattoo artist it was not coming across. Everyone tells you different stories on the level of pain getting a tattoo. Mine was a little painful but it was bearable. Like a tiny little needle constantly picking at you (I mean that is what it's doing). It stings a little. I was just surprised I managed to sit still for it for I am an extremely restless person.
It was all worth it in the end. Even the pain and not getting much sleep due to being uncomfortable. People tell you about the pain of getting a tattoo but no one tells you about the bit afterwards. Nobody tells you about the blood either. I do love my tattoo though and very happy that it turned out good.
I guess this is a good place to introduce myself. Or maybe not. I could leave a little mystery and you get to find out along the way. This blog is just a way for me to write down about my thoughts whether they are wise or not. It was sort of a way for me to keep up with my writing and what not whilst I don't have anything to do before I start university.
I will be blogging about my adventures in life. My travels, relationship stuff, life stuff, music, movies and just whatever takes my fancy.
My name is Susan. Some people do call me Suzie. A mid to late 20's lady who is from a wee town just outside of Glasgow in Scotland. I am currently a student at UWS. Studying Politics, Society and Policy. Fun times as I was really into my social science subjects.
I currently live at home with my mum but I am looking forward to the day I move out which should hopefully won't be too long. Saving up for that just now with the boyfriend.
Speaking of boyfriend, I am a lucky git to have this amazing guy in my life. We like going on late night drives together and singing along to the music in the car. We're pretty keen with cooking too.
I'm not too sure what else I can say but I hope you enjoy reading about my life and adventures. Don't be afraid to speak to me.
That's it for now.
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